I've noticed on construction sites that the men who are actually doing the labor are usually pretty invisible. We spend a great deal of time looking for the perfect contractor to do the work on our homes, but they usually are running from project to project checking in with their subs (sub-contractors) and then they are off to the next site. Sometimes these subs are actually installing the plumbing, setting the tiles and painting, but very often it is their crew. They are on the bottom of the totem pole, but it is their care, dedication and pride of craftsmanship that leads to a finished product that you are happy with or not. So next time you are re-modeling or building a new home think about acknowledging them, thanking them for their good work, filling a fridge with drinks and snacks that they like.
One of my friends who is a serious cook, would make the workers gourmet burritos and other foods from their country every day. She watched them toss their food into the trash while relishing her delectable meals. Now when something wasn't done to her satisfaction, do you think these guys grumbled and groused or were they eager to please her?
It's amazing how far a little kindness and thoughtfulness goes. While most of us don't have the time or talent to do this, you can make arrangements to treat them to a special lunch once a week. You can make a difference in their lives. The shift that is going on right now is to remember that we are all brothers and sisters on this physical path and that our work here is to recognize that and honor one another.
Very thoughtful and meaningful.
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